code of conduct

how we hold each other.

willing only works when people arrive honest and leave each other better than they found them. everyone who joins agrees to this.

arrive as yourself

• you're single, and open to something real.
• your photos are recent, and they're you.
• your name, age and answers are true.

move with care

• consent, always. for everything, every time, and it can change at any moment.
• no pressure, harassment, insults or discrimination, in person or in messages.
• if the spark isn't there, say so kindly. don't disappear; tell us and we'll pass it on gently.
• show up when you say you will. repeated no-shows may end your membership.

keep each other's secrets

• what someone shares with you stays with you. no names, photos or details outside willing.
• no photos or recordings of others at gatherings without their yes.

stay safe

• meet somewhere public the first time, and let a friend know where you'll be.
• drink gently at gatherings. there's always something lovely without alcohol.

if something feels wrong

tell us right away. it stays confidential, and we take every word seriously. we may pause someone while we listen, and anyone who harms another member is removed for good.

questions, or something doesn't sit right? reply to any email from willing.