come as you are. stay willing.
How it works
- 01
reflect
An intake worth doing even if we never meet. About twenty minutes with the questions most people never slow down to ask themselves. Type or speak.
- 02
talk
We read every application and invite a small handful to a conversation. We're not looking for perfect. We're looking for willing: open, honest, and able to look at themselves. Talking is how we find that, and how we come to know you well enough to choose for you.
- 03
meet
Introductions one at a time, each with a reason and follow-up after. Tables of six to eight, and a reveal night every season.
Groundwork
a guide to the inner work of love, wherever you are right now.
tend
after heartbreak
for when something ended and you're still carrying it. grieving it all the way through, forgiving yourself, and understanding why it hurt the way it did, so it doesn't quietly choose your next person for you.
nourish
the almosts and situationships
for the in-between. naming what you need out loud, noticing what's been feeding you crumbs, and finding the courage to leave what doesn't nourish you, or ask for more.
grow
getting ready for someone new
for when you're single and open. your patterns and where they come from, your non-negotiables, and how to date with intention: slower, clearer, and more like yourself.
bloom
growing together as a couple
for two people choosing each other on purpose. repairing after conflict, keeping desire alive, and making room for each of you to keep growing side by side.
Ways to join
in the books
free
Apply, and once we've read your intake you're in our pool. When there's someone right for you, we'll reach out. Every gathering is open to you.
in the room
$55.55 / month
Your seat at a sunday golden hour table every month, the full groundwork guide, and member prices on reveal nights.
in good hands
+ $300 / month
Your own matchmaker. A conversation to start, an active search, and at least one introduction a month, each with a reason and follow-up after every date. Month to month.
Gatherings
sunday golden hour
monthly · 5 to 7pm
Tables of six to eight, seats chosen for you. Your seat is included when you're in the room, or $25 on its own.
reveal night
once a season · next: december 10
One room, a drink in hand, and a sealed envelope with your introduction and the reason we chose them.
We're not looking for perfect. We're looking for willing. Every introduction comes with a reason, so you'll always know why we thought of this person for you.
begin your intake